although, this may turn out to be negative, as a narcissist won「t believe he is having some problem.
尽管这样可能会造成负面影响,作为一个自恋者根本不相信自己的确有这些问题。
initially, a narcissist will not let you enter his personal space.
首先,自恋主义者不容你踏入他的私人领地。
my professional advice: don」t fall in love with a narcissist or entertain illusions they「re capable of the give and take necessary for intimacy.
我的专业建议是:不要与自恋者相爱,也不要因为亲密而随意满足其不切实际的予取予求。
narcissist 「i want to do this, i want to do that…」 trying to control.
自恋倾向「我想做这个,我想做那个… … 」试图控制。
the medical term, narcissist personality disorder, that refers to the presence of narcissist behavior in a personality, has been derived from the same greek myth. so what is narcissistic behavior?
在希腊神话中,一个名narcissus的小伙子自从在池塘里看到过自己的倒影以后就疯狂的爱上自己的倒影了.医学术语称之为自恋型人格障碍,其命名来源于这个希腊神化中的有着自恋个性的narcissus的名字.那什么是自恋行为呢?
so, if a narcissist loves himself so much, why would he do anything to hurt himself and put his interests in danger, considering that you are his interest?
那么,既然一个自恋者对他自己如此之爱,他又何苦要去伤害自己、把自己的兴趣搁置一边,而强把你当做他的兴趣所在呢?
understand that often a childhood trauma or poor upbringing of a child makes him grow up emotionally and socially withdrawn, leading to narcissist behavior.
一般来说,一个有童年创伤或者疏于照顾的孩子在长大后会有感情或者社交缺陷,这往往会导致他们的自恋行为。
of course, it would be premature to call the major-league hopeful a narcissist at such an early age, but imagine that same kind of unstoppable, unrealistic attitude 10 or 20 years later.
当然,在如此早年认定这位希望成为大联盟职业选手的人是一个自恋者会显得过早。但设想一下,这种无法停止的不切实际的自信持续一二十年后会变成怎样。
instead, nolan intends to transfix you with a narcissist theory that seems logic and complex on the surface.
诺兰的初衷是想通过一套让他颇为得意的理论带给观众震撼──在表面上看来这套理论似乎充满逻辑和复杂性。
these types of websites provide a forum where the narcissist can exercise high control of how he/she is perceived giving an edited image.
这些类型的网站提供了一个自恋者可以自行控制编辑图像的论坛。
our everyday picture of a narcissist is that of someone who is very self-involved — the conversation is always about them.
我们眼中的自恋者的日常写照是十分自我专注的——谈话内容总是关于他们。
narcissist people do think about the good of others, but their problem stems from their rational mind that makes them the center of this world.
自恋者也认为他人都是不错的,但是他们的问题源自他们理所当然的以自我为中心。
the key to working for such a boss is learning to share praise, making your own contributions subtly known and ensuring that the narcissist doesn」t rule your work life.
在这种老板手下工作的关键是学会分享荣誉,巧妙地让人了解你的贡献,并确保你的职场生活不被自恋者主宰。