United States educator famous for writing a book about how to win friends and influence people (1888-1955)

dale carnegie i get a lot of e-mails asking if particular niches are good. usually it goes something like: 「should i launch a web site/blog/product in a competitive niche?

我收到过很多邮件，问我在网上开博是否合算，还经常听到这样的话“我应该在一个竞争激烈的网站上建站/开博/开店吗？」

dale carnegie (1888-1955) american writer.

——戴尔·卡耐基 (1888-1955)美国作家

so he enrolled in a dale carnegie public speaking course and says the skills he learned there enabled him to woo his future wife, susan thompson, a 「champion debater,」 he says.

他说他在那儿学到的技巧让他能够向他未来的妻子苏珊?汤普森求爱。他说自己的太太是一位「冠军辩手」。

his secret for how to win friends and influence people read like an early dale carnegie course: 「would you win the hearts of others, you must not seem to vie with them, but to admire them.

他对于如何交朋友和影响人们的阐述有点像是早期的dale carnegie课程：「如果你打算赢得别人的信任，你不能与他们竞争，而是应该赞赏他。

」it was many years ago. 「 ben fortson told dale carnegie smilingly, 」 i cut down a large bunch of woods to prop up the beans in the yard.

“事情发生在多年以前，」班·福特森微笑着告诉卡耐基，「我砍了一大堆胡桃木的枝干，準备做我的菜园里豆子的撑架。

when i was looking for a book related to our monthly theme of happiness, i found a book by dale carnegie entitled how to stop worrying and start living.

当我为本月的演讲主题“快乐」找寻资料时，我发现了戴尔·卡内基的《如何停止忧虑，开始新生活》一书。

dale carnegie did it.

戴尔·卡内基这样做了。

dale carnegie once said, 「it isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. it’s what you think about.」

戴尔·卡耐基曾经说过，「让你快乐或是不快乐的原因，不是你拥有什么，你是谁，你在哪里，或者是你正在做什么，而是你想不想快乐。」

besides teaching me about how to stop worrying, this book also teaches me about how to write. the way dale carnegie wrote impresses me.

除了教会我如何不再忧虑，这本书也教会了我怎样写作。

that was before i took a course in public speaking at the dale carnegie institute .

那是我在戴尔卡内基学院选修演说术之前的事。

we must reject the dale carnegie compromise that would influence their actions by endorsing their consumer values.

我们必须抵制卡内基式的妥协，因为那样的妥协是以消费者为导向的，还会对我们的行动产生影响。

other than your a-game, dale carnegie training suggests bringing a notepad that is large enough to write on but small enough to be handled gracefully.

职业训练机构建议面试者应该带一个笔记本，这个笔记本应该足够大，让你能在上边记，但也不能太大，拿在手上它要能同时让你显得斯文些。

dale carnegie training offers a number of other questions to expect during an interview.

戴尔.卡内基培训公司的提供了在面试时有可能遇到的很多提问。

in fact, dale carnegie trains people to offer feedback in a friendly way.

实际上，戴尔卡耐基便培训学员们，要以一种友好的方式提供反馈。