Do whatever it takes to start having fun again.
尽一切可能再次拥有乐趣。
Do whatever it takes to make your marriage thrive: swallow your pride, go to counseling or a marriage, give up a hobby, throw the TV in the dumpster, whatever.
做任何能使你婚姻美满的事,压制你的自豪感,去接受专业的辅导或者离婚,改掉你的嗜好,把电视机丢进垃圾桶里。
Failing to use relaxation techniques. Do whatever it takes a listening to music, breathing deeply, shrugging your shoulders a to relieve nervous tension.
没有运用放松的技巧:做一些可以缓解紧张情绪的任何事情,如听音乐、深呼吸、耸肩膀等。
Do whatever it takes for the person to get into such state (you can, for example, tell a story that will lead the person to your desired emotional state).
然后去做一切能使对象达到这种状态的事情(比如说你可以讲一个故事能让对象达到你预想的状态)。