A good listener has the ability to make people feel good, and is as valuable at a party as a good talker.
一个好的听众要有让人感觉舒服的本领,好的听众在参加派对时与一个优秀的说话者同等重要。
A good listener stands tall or sits up straight, leans into the speaker and makes eye contact.
一个好的倾听者应该站得笔直或者坐直,跟随演讲者并进行眼神交流。
A good listener will want to understand the reason they feel unappreciated.
一个好的倾听者会去想要了解他们未被欣赏的原因。
A good listener must be good at asking questions.
一个好的聆听者应该善于问问题。
A good listener will speak 20% of the time and listen 80% of the time.
一个好的倾听者将会说20%的时间然后听80%的时间。