know you have the confidence to be independent and exult in the freedom that comes from being able to set your own agenda.
我们知道你有自信保持独立并为能够自由设立自己的日程而欢欣鼓舞。
but the sense of difference, especially when one is young, does not exult in itself. it looks for connections, corroborations, anything that will cut against the feeling of being separate.