If you「re unhappy about something with your partner then sort it out first.
如果你和你的伴侣有不快,那么先解决了这个问题。
It is also important to realize you do not have to be performing CirqueDuSolei in the bedroom, but just enjoy being intimate with your partner in the bedroom.
最重要的是,不要只想着自己享受,你不需要做什么高难度技巧,只要享受与伴侣亲密的感觉。
Don」t waste any of that excited energy - make up with your partner straight-away with some between the sheets action.
不要浪费任何兴奋的能量-用最直接的方法也就是床上翻云覆雨来和你的另一半和解。
Now that you are suggesting moving in with your partner she maybe panicking at the reality of your situation.
现在你提出要与你的伴侣搬走,她可能对你现在的状况感到恐慌。
How about praying with your partner and asking God how he would like you to use your time?
何不如和你的另一半一起祈祷并询问上帝,他希望你如何利用你的时间?
‘It might be a feeling of being so merged with your partner you lose your ego boundaries, so you can’t determine who is doing what to whom,’ says Wade.
韦德说,「你可能会感觉和对方交融在一起,以致你失去自我的界限,你无法分清彼此或你们在做着什么。」
Instead of having a relaxing date with your partner you start nagging or nit-picking because you are just too tired of doing it all by yourself.
你不再和你的爱人有轻松愉快的约会,而是开始唠唠叨叨和吹毛求疵,因为你对这一切都开始不耐烦了。
Be open with your partner about what「s making you angry.
开诚布公的告诉你的伴侣你为什么生气。
If there」s something new you'd like to try — a position, a toy, a different room in the house — gently approach the subject with your partner and start exploring.
你可以试试做一些新鲜的事情——变个姿势、多个玩具、换个房间——温柔地和你的搭档接触新事物并摸索前行。
Discuss it with your partner and make a list.
同你的伙伴讨论一下,然后列一个表。
Arrange a regular time to be with your partner physically.
安排定期与你的伴侣见面。
Therapy can teach you to share things that bother you with your partner effectively, as well as how to listen to your partner while staying close, curious, and connected.
心理治疗可以有效地教你讲出困扰你与伴侣关系的因素,如何保持亲密、兴趣及有效沟通地听伴侣诉说心声。
Being completely naked with your partner lets you really see each other.
与你的搭档一起裸露让你们互相看见对方。