it would be a sad state of affairs if we felt unable to trust anyone with our children, but we should not accept that they are automatically safeguarded from abuse just because a female is present. .
如果我们不能信任和自己孩子在一起的每一个人,这多少让人灰心,但我们不能因为一名女性在场而想当然认为孩子就是安全的。