in this case, as to their setback and ache, we had better care for and understand their moods with a benefic hear, but not crow over their frustration.
因此在别人的失意、挫折、伤痛时,不宜幸灾乐祸,应关怀、了解,要有宽容的心。
he is a narrow-minded person who would crow over other」s failure.