following or imitating those who politely behave, actively think will be beneficial to you. however, if you follow others blindly will make you lose your real self and you can't be a creative person.
跟从或模仿那些举止优雅、独立思考的人会你有益,但是,如果你盲目跟从就会使你失去自己,也不能成为一个具有创新精神的人。