most importantly, the past is the past, you can「t change it. you can try to hang on to it or you can get over it.
最重要的是,过去的已经过去,你无法改变。你可以尝试一直想着它或者跨越它。
and it」s amazing we hang on to it so stubbornly in the face of reality.
面对着真相,我们还那么顽固地执着于它,这真的是令人惊讶的一件事。
advises hoffman: 「if you've got a job, hang on to it the best you can.」
霍夫曼建议:「如果你现在有工作,想办法保住它。」