While I still maintain that my way is right, I now understand that both of us were copying our parents「 behavior, and neither of us could understand why we couldn」t agree on this 「important」 subject.
今日我还是认为我的方法才是对的,但我也明白我们都只是沿袭了我们父母的习惯,而我们都不能理解为甚么当年在这样「重大」的事情上竟不能达成共识。
I now understand that it is not about what you do upon the physical plane; it is about what you are willing to forgive in your inheritance that most matters.
现在我理解到,这和你在物质层上所做的事物无关,这和你愿意来原谅你祖先史中的什么问题最有关系。
I hesitate to say 「low point」 as I now understand that apparently some people choose this way of living.
我踟蹰而言我现在所能够理解的「低点」是,显然,很多人选择了过这样的生活方式。