are you afraid that your friend can't understand what you are going through ?
你害怕你的朋友不能理解你正在经受些什么吗?
few people can understand what you are going through as well as other parents who have a child with a similar diagnosis.
除非自己的孩子有相似的诊断,否则很少有人能理解癌癥患儿的家长们正经历着什么。
but there is a vast resource out there of people fighting the same disease who do know what you are going through now and will have to battle in the future, and i suggest you get in touch with them.
不过,在外部,有一个庞大的人群,他们正在与同样的疾病作战,他们知道你现在和将来与病魔的斗争中会经历什么,我建议你与他们取得联系。
but understand that there are other people out there who have been through what you are going through and can help you immensely.
但我们相信有些人已经从这个恐惧中坚强地走了出来,并愿意帮助我们。
learn to think not so much about the past or future, but about what you are going through right now.
活在当下。不要老去想过去和未来的事情,只要想想自己现在正在做的就可以了。
know that what you are going through is very common.
懂得你经历的是非常普通的。