but if not, consider doing something special for her that honors your friendship — for example, putting up a web page devoted to photos and funny captions of the two of you through the years.
但是,如果没有的话,考虑做一些特别的事-例如,建立一个专门的网页,放你们两个的照片。
whenever we consider doing something that would interfere with their needs, we are morally obligated to take them into account.