Did your family throw plates, calmly discuss issues or silently shut down when disagreements arose?
当有分歧发生的时候,你的家人是会摔盘子、冷静地讨论,还是缄口不言?
You have a much better chance at resolving the situation in a peaceful manner if you can calmly discuss the motive(s) behind their behavior with them.
如果你能和他们平静地讨论他们行为背后的意图,那么以一个平和的方式解决这个处境上,你的机会大地多。
Yun Shou Ping's family background for his life, Friendship Arts, the researchers paid modern respectable effort, but also precisely because of these reasons, we can calmly discuss the problem.
对于恽寿平的家世生平、交游学艺方面,近现代的研究者付出了值得尊敬的努力,也正是因为这些原因,我们才能从容地探讨这一方面的问题。