when i married you, i didn「t realize you were such a clinging vine .
当我跟你结婚时,我不知道你是这样一个没有独立能力的人。
it」s a great tragedy for a woman to be regarded as a clinging vine by people.
对于一个女人来说,需要别人来养活是一个很大的悲哀。
see, the popular author of 「snow flower and the secret fan, 」 uses the chinese opera 「the peony pavilion」 as a trellis for her clinging vine of a story.