not only are we likely to get hurt ourselves when they use us, but it keeps them stuck in a loop of attraction and rejection.
因为,当我们发现他们利用我们时,我们会感到伤心;而且,这会这会让自恋者们陷入吸引与排斥这个圈。
and it was better to get hurt than get arrested, because if you were arrested, you were off project mayhem, no more homework assignments.
受伤比被捕可强太多了,如果你被捕,那你就被大混乱计划除名了,再也没有家庭作业可做。
you have to acknowledge the other person’s hurt in order for them to feel safe that you understand what hurt them and trust that they won’t get hurt again.
你必须肯定他人因你而受伤,让他们感到安慰你理解他们的痛苦并让他们相信这样的伤害再不会发生。
compassion includes ourselves too – we can’t let ourselves get hurt in the process.
怜悯同样包括我们自己-我们不能让自己在这个过程中受伤。
we’re all going to get hurt by people, we don’t have a choice in that.
我们都将会被别人伤害,在这件事情上,我们没有选择的权利。
the flipside to being vulnerable is you get hurt sometimes.
变得脆弱的反作用是让你有时很受伤。
playing soccer, basketball or anything else year-round is one way to get hurt or become bored with a sport.
一年四季地踢足球、打篮球或者从事任何其它运动会使你受伤或者对某项体育运动感到厌烦。
are you not forgiving because you are scared you'll get hurt again?
你是不是因为害怕再次被伤害而不去原谅?
fear the plant leader, fear the manager, fear the worker, not get hurt necessarily, but losing their job is the result of being excluded in the statistic.
害怕工厂领导,害怕经理,害怕工人,不一定会受伤,但失去工作,一定会体现在数据之外的。
when we see someone get hurt we get startled, and react with tension. it also twists relationships.
当我们看见其他人受伤或吃了一惊或被压力影响,也可以将其中的关系扭在一起。
you are going to fall and get hurt before you learn to do it right.
在学会之前,你会摔倒,甚至会受伤。
it’s very easy to hurt someone and then say 「sorry」, but it’s really very difficult to get hurt ans say 「i’m fine」.