securely attached people are warm and loving and love to be close, but they don「t have a sensitive alarm system. they don」t get preoccupied with the relationship; they don't mind things so much.
安全型依附的人很温和,喜欢亲近别人也喜欢被人亲近,但是他们并没有敏感的警报系统,不会让自己的全部身心为两性关系占有,也不会过于计较一些事情。