in the style of ‘free parenting’, i would say yes to everything my children wanted for an entire week — and see what happened.

根据「亲子养育」的方式，在整整一个星期内，我要对我的孩子的要求通通说「是」，然后看看效果如何。

and what you secretly really want is to say yes to yourself.

你真正想要的是对自己说 「是」

remember, every time we say yes to something, we must necessarily say no to something else, whether we want to or not. i guarantee it.

我保证，每次你答应别人什么事的时候，就意味着，无论你愿不愿意，你必须拒绝另一件事。

sometimes we feel that we have to say yes to our boss — they’re our boss, right?

有时候我们觉得得向我们的老板说是-他们毕竟是我们的老板，不是吗？

nothing in the world, all its history could be different without everything being different in as much as everything is essential; to say yes to anything requires saying yes to everything.

所有事物包括历史只能在「每,一事物均不同且必要“的情况,才可能不同，对任何之事说是,要求对所有之事说“是

say yes to something else .

在其他事情上答应他 。

how often do you say yes to a commitment when you really want to say no?

你是否经常对承诺回答是，但你其实想说不？

「passive aggressive people will say yes to your face and stab you in the back, 」 she says.

她说：“消极对抗型的人当面同意你的观点，却可能在背后给你一刀。

but i「m going to argue that nietzsche means, at least at these moments when he thinks ultimate thoughts about eternal return and so on, that we must say yes to each thing.

但我认为，其实尼采是说，至少那时，当他思考着有关,永恒回归的终极想法等等，他认为必须对所有事说“是

barak wanted me to come to the region, but i wanted arafat to say yes to the israelis on the big issues embodied in my parameters first.

巴拉克想让我到该地区走一遭，但我想首先让阿拉法特同意包含我提出的条件的重大争议性问题。

at this stage, you agree to say yes to life and into his dance.

在这个阶段，你接受生活，并与之共舞。

people often say yes to all three in studies asking similar questions after presenting similar scenarios.

人们通常在这样的情况下会对上面三个问题都回答“是的」。

why do we say yes to parties and volunteer commitments that suck the life right out of our tired veins?

我们为什么要对晚会说「是」，为什么要为了志愿者承诺而在我们疲倦的日子里再浪费生命。

we all know that when we say yes to one thing we are saying no to something else. if that committee you」re on isn「t providing you a sense of fulfillment or accomplishment as it once did, quit.

我们都知当我们对一件事情点头时也就是放弃了另一件事，如果你所在的委员会不能像曾经那样给你满足感成就感，请离开，如果球队枯燥乏味，请离开，如果研究院并不能给你所想要的，请离开。

if you say yes to a request for more demanding than expected, you will haunt yourself...

如果你答应了一个比预期中麻烦得多的请求，你会手忙脚乱。

one」s ability to embrace eternal return is telling precisely because it shows that one can say yes to everything even the most repellent features of life.

介绍，人信仰永恒回归的能力,正说明此，因为它显示了人可,对所有事情说「是“，甚至是,生命中最讨厌的方面，因此。

for example. you say yes to the values, no to the tactics and yes to going forward.

举例来说：你对对方的价值观是肯定的，对于战略则否定，直到肯定了才会继续谈。

let's do a quick self-assessment, how often has our decision to say yes to the “wrong」 thing contributed to the things in our life we are currently unhappy about?

让我做个自我评估，有多少次我们做出错误的选择造成了人生中一些不如意的现状？

if you reflexively say yes to taking on extra work, you may live to regret it.

如果你违反本能去选择更多的工作量的话，你一定会后悔。

let’s all say yes to life, open doors to opportunities, and never stop trying.

让我们为机遇敞开大门，勇敢尝试，永不言败！

for one month after a really devastating breakup, i challenged myself to say yes to every invite i got -- both for dates and just going out with friends to things like gallery openings.

在那场毁灭性打击的分手一个月后，我尝试然那个自己应下我获得的每一个邀请，不论是约会或者仅仅是陪朋友去看诸如公开的画廊展览。

few will argue with the idea that people prefer to say yes to others that they like.

很少有人不同意这个观念：人们更喜欢对自己喜欢的人表示肯定。

so when we say yes to everything it seems we are also saying yes to saying no. this causes the question in what sense nietzsche can be commending to us saying yes rather than saying no.

当我们对所有事说“是“，似乎,我们对“不“也说“是“，这,引起问题，尼采鼓励我们,说“是“而不应该说“不

what we say no to and what we say yes to can mean the difference between a life full of regrets, or a life marked by gratitude for a life well lived.

我们所选择的和拒绝的将会决定我们的人生会充满遗憾还是灿烂如锦。

so the question is: how can nietzsche say yes to life not just in the aggregate but also in every individual but also go on to say no?

问题是他如何不仅在集合阶段,也在个人阶段上对生命说是,但同时还继续说“不“？那就是？

ryan: life balance for me means being able to do what i want, when i want, and how i want. and that unfortunately means that i can’t say yes to everyone in my life.

对我来说，和谐生活就意味我能干什么、什么时候干，怎么干 ，遗憾的是，在我的生活当中，我不可能对每个人都说。