To follow your life's guidance, you may have to reassign some seemingly important things to 「unimportant.」
要遵循生活的指引,你也许要重新去把那些似乎重要的事情归为”不重要“。
If you are stuck because you have a vague sense of a seemingly important issue, do a quick check with this reference and you may be able to move forward with your ideas.