so, if you keep patience in the start and show them support, by just giving them a sweet smile and saying, 「okay」, they might come and discuss it with you, honestly, when they are ready
因此,如果你一开始就表现出极大的耐心,并且对他的行为表示理解,然后对他报以一丝甜甜的微笑,随口加上一句「好吧,随你咯。」或许,诚实的讲,他们做好準备了就会来到你的身边对你敞开心扉。