but if i can be dutiful to parents who hate me, only then will i meet the standards of the saints and sages for being a dutiful child.
但是如我的父母憎厌我,我还是能一样的孝敬他们,那才符合圣贤人行孝的标準。
if thou hadst a step-mother and a mother at the same time, thou wouldst be dutiful to thy step-mother, but still thou wouldst constantly return to thy mother.
如果你同时有继母和生母,你应该对继母尽你的职责,但同时也应该经常回去看望你的生母。
we should not only be dutiful to our own parents, but to other elder people and love the youngsters.
我们不仅要孝敬自己的父母,还应该尊敬别的老人,爱护年幼的孩子。